you're allowed to change the things that you are dissatisfied with.
you CAN change the things that you are dissatisfied with.
You have ALL the power that you need to make the changes your heart longs for.
It just takes a bit of work, a bit of honesty, a bit of bravery, a bit of courage, a bit of faith, and a bit of self-love.
You know,
the things that your heart longs for, aren't just things that you're meant to daydream about...
They're things that you're meant to live out.
They're things placed inside of you to experience and emerge yourself. Little signs and signals on where to go next, BUUUUT most people ignore them...
They claim they're lost, but really, they're just ignoring the alerts within them that say
"HEY, GO WITH ME NEXT"
Why? Because of those fucking beliefs inside of you that say that's too much, you're not worthy of it, that.... that's not possible.
A lot of people think they have to *stay* in the situations they are in, even if they're unhappy because of this belief that there is no other option.
Usually, the feeling like there is no other option is because of the stronghold our beliefs have on us.
The beliefs that got passed down to us, or beliefs from hurtful situations we went through.
We got blinded by our own limitations and sit in the shit we'd rather not because those limiting beliefs became a part of our identity.
It became part of the story that we tell ourselves over and over again.
We settle and say "yep, this is life, this is what life is supposed to be like" ...
I want to open you up to the world of infinite possibilities.
change doesn't happen.
It happens when you TAKE THE FUCKING ACTION TO MAKE THE CHANGE.
Change doesn't happen until you make it happen by choosing differently...
Choosing your highest self rather than your lowest self.
It means putting your big girl or big boy panties on and saying "I will face the shit that I'm in"...
I hear people's thoughts now
"it's not that easy" ...
No baby, it's not. It's hard as fuck to change your life but it's also hard as fuck to settle and sit up at night wondering what your desires would be like...
Choose your hard.
So if you're ready to make a change, I have a few steps for you:
1. Write down all the ways your life reflects your disempowerment
(your habits, your environments, your relationships, your friendships, your career, your lack of boundaries, self-sabotage, etc)
2. Write a list of all the ways you will walk away from disempowerment
(stopping habits, not going to certain places, setting boundaries in your relationships, facing your insecurities and making moves anyways, letting go of certain relationships & friendships, redirecting your career, etc)
DO WHATEVER CALLS TO YOU.
3. Make a list of all the ways you will start walking into your empowerment
(what habits will you adopt, what new places will you expose yourself to, what kind of relationships do you want in your life, what kind of career will you work towards, what kind of boundaries will you set up, what kind of goals will you have, etc)
4. Execute the fucking plan.
Your lists will be great, but until you follow through with the list... You will stay the same.
Choose what you want, and stop settling for anything less.
Figure out the kind of life your heart and soul craves, & make it happen for yourself.
You got this. Your kingdom is waiting for you!
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