I have an exciting thing to tell you:
The insecurities you struggle with aren't a reflection of who you are or what you're capable of, they don't define you
The insecurities you struggle with are stories that have been passed down from other people
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The Insecurities you struggle with are emotional reactions we carry from past events that were traumatic.
Usually, these stories came from those we were around: Our families, our teachers, our friends, our family friends, and even the culture/religions we grew up in.
Usually, these traumatic events are from the dynamic in our households growing up, past interactions at school, past intimate relationships, past friendships.
If the insecurities were really you, then you would've been born with them.
Most likely,
They are things that developed inside of you based on external influence.
Kind of like diseases that manifest in our bodies.
Knowing this gives us the upper hand.
It gives us the upper hand to change the narrative.
It gives us permission to not attach to them.
Most likely you've attached to the insecurities and have made them an identity.
You can always change your identity if you are willing to do a little work and fight against your trauma mind.
In order to stop identifying with this old narrative,
You have to let your inspiration be louder than your insecurities.
Most of the time our insecurities hit us in the place where our desires want to express themselves.
Have you ever found yourself wanting to really do something, then when it comes to doing it, you freeze?
Yeah, that's the insecurities ruling your subconscious mind.
What happens is your subconscious mind (the shadow mind) replays the scenario in the back of your mind, reminding you of why you need to freeze and keep yourself safe.
So the simple step?
You work through the freeze.
You let that inspiration and the desire,
PUSH YOU. MOTIVATE YOU.
Live is waiting for you, take hold of it.
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