Blunt Soul Reminder #1: Mind Your F*cking Business

Welcome to the very first Blunt Soul Reminder—a new weekly series where I drop the truth you didn’t ask for but definitely needed.

These are the messages that snap you back into alignment when your mind starts spiraling, your energy’s leaking, or your focus is fading.

No fluff. No dragging it out. Straight to the f*cking point. Raw, real, spiritual wake-up calls that remind you of who the fuck you are.

You are powerful. You are not behind. And you are here to own your lane.

Today, I thought I would drop in and remind you to mind your fucking business this week.

I started saying this to myself a few months ago, and it's completely changed my life/my focus/and my peace.

I gave myself permission to mind my fucking business.

We all struggle with comparison...

I, however, was falling into it hard.

Doubt left and right.

One day I got so tired of how the comparison was lowering my energetic set point, I said out loud to myself,

"mind your fucking business, girl... damn."

Then, I got off my phone for the rest of the day...

Since then, the habit of looking at other people's lives has faded away.

I feel damn good living my life, no second-guessing, and have been creating SO MUCH every day.

I want the same for you.

Comparing does NOTHING for you.

NOTHING... If you could name five uplifting things comparing does - what would it be?

I bet you, you can't come up with a good feeling reason.

So, it's time to stop and shift your focus.

Comparing takes away your energy, your confidence, your creativity, and your abundant state.

What's that leaving for you?

Self-doubt, self-ridicule, insecurities, and a cocktail of shitty emotions.

These are all distractions from being able to take responsibility for your life.

Taking away energy from you, creating a life that feels good intentionally.

How do you stop comparing? YOU STOP.

You don't need a journal prompt. You don't need a long lecture.

You need a decision to make your life more important than your addiction to others.

You make the intentional decision to say "fuck off" to that unproductive habit of separating yourself from... yourself and your life...

Get up and do something for yourself; mind your business on the way there!

Make this week the start of a magical shift!