With time passing by I know a lot of people struggle with seeing change.
At the beginning of the year, they say they're going to make all of these changes and then they don't.
They say they're going to do better, be better, require better
Yet that declaration usually falls off after the 1st or 2nd month.
I'm going to let you in on a little secret to create massive & permanent change in your life:
YOU HAVE TO GET TIRED OF WHERE YOU ARE AT.
Point. Blank. Period.
Until you get tired of the shit, you'll keep living in shit and you won't ever grow.
Why?
Because you'll keep condoning the same behavior from yourself, from other people. You'll keep condoning the same energy in your life day after day, month after month, year after year.
YOU HAVE TO GET SO FED UP THAT YOU BREAK.
I know that sounds intense, but the moment you break is the moment that you open up.
When we're letting ourselves live in shit, we get comfortable with the walls of limitation.
We start convincing ourselves that misery is okay. That misery can be a forever thing & we'll just have to deal with it.
We settle for the shit.
Instead of letting ourselves be a butterfly, we stoop down to being a fly.
But when you break,
you break down structures, beliefs, habits, behaviors, thoughts, careers, friendships, relationships.
You knock down the box you've been living in, and break free into the majestic world that is waiting for you.
Until you get fed up with the shit that is weighing you down, you won't ever really change. You'll be complacent...
You can't control the world around you and what is going to be thrown at you, but you can change how you responded and how you show up despite it.
Change happens when you get so fucking tired of living in shit.
Now, this doesn't mean life is perfect or that you will always have perfect days.
It doesn't mean that your journey will be easy.
It's about how you navigate those struggles that make monumental shifts in life.
So if you find yourself fed up and frustrated,
GOOD. Feel it.
Don't stuff it down. Confront it in the face. Stand in the face of the uncomfortableness and accept how shitty that feeling is.
When you distract yourself from it, you don't change. You stuff it down and continue to settle.
When you face it, you wake the fuck up and realize
"damn, SOMETHING NEEDS TO CHANGE" .
Let yourself get fed the fuck up with the shit.
There's so much more waiting for you.
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